{"id":45,"date":"2010-10-11T09:00:42","date_gmt":"2010-10-11T08:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.badreputation.org.uk\/?p=45"},"modified":"2010-10-11T09:00:42","modified_gmt":"2010-10-11T08:00:42","slug":"an-alphabet-of-femininism-2-b-is-for-bitch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/badreputation.org.uk\/2010\/10\/11\/an-alphabet-of-femininism-2-b-is-for-bitch\/","title":{"rendered":"An Alphabet of Feminism #2: B is for Bitch"},"content":{"rendered":"
The four-letter word that isn’t a four letter word, at least
properly a
bitch<\/em> has four legs. As anyone who’s ever tittered at
Cruft’s will be only too aware, the glory of bitch is that, like
gay<\/em>, it has a meaning unrelated to human sexuality in many
circles. Hence its first meaning, ‘the female of the
dog’, originating in Middle English and Old Norse. The
dictionary extends its potential out a bit: you can, it insists,
have other types of bitch creature (e.g., ‘bitch fox’)
as long as you specify. Bitch aardvark; bitch turtle (I
hope).<\/p>\n You say 'bitch' like it's a
bad thing.<\/p><\/div>\n
But, with typical ingratitude to Man’s Best Friend, the
human race quickly (well, by the fourteenth century) started using
dog<\/em> to mean all the juicy olde worlde insults \u2013
‘worthless fellow’, ‘traitor’,
‘low cur’, ‘coward’, etc. \u2013 with
the implication being that a four-legged
dog<\/em> only thinks of its survival and has no interest in
Elevated Human Ideals like honour, dignity, nobility, etc.
Bitch<\/em> is the female of the species in every sense,
so, while
dog<\/em> is connected with male inadequacy and
primitivism,
bitch<\/em> attacks women on that most unoriginal of
plains, sexuality.<\/p>\n
Enter the second, and probably most commonly
understood use of the term: its opprobrious
application to women. The Oxford English Dictionary
(OED to you and me) initially sticks to the rather
conservative definition ‘a lewd or sensual
woman’, adding sternly ‘Not now in decent
use’, although it then extends the term to mean
‘a malicious or treacherous woman’ or,
more generally, an ‘outstandingly difficult or
unpleasant’ thing,<\/span> this last surely an
allusion to the proverbial aggression of mothering
animals. But why do these sexual meanings keep
cropping up? The answer lies in the Dim And Distant
Past.<\/p>\n
When these terms begin to be bandied about in the
1300s, the crucial point is that that much-touted
Man On The Street would probably have said that men
were spiritual, closer-to-God beings, while their
wives were, well, Closer To God in the Trent
Reznorian<\/a> sense. There was a very simple reason
for this: physically speaking, women can, er,
last <\/em>longer than men. ‘What is
this?’ their husbands cry, ‘I’ve
had enough \u2013 That’s all anyone should
need! Womankind is dangerously lecherous!’
Moreover, since Man had been created first (and in
God’s image) he was some way towards
divinity already, but the daughters of Eve were
far from such exalted regions. They were really
just a higher kind of animal: Adam had, after all,
been given dominion over his wife along with the
birds and beasts.<\/p>\n
So female lechery could quickly become perceived
as a primitive, animalistic trait that the
forces of humanity \u2013 and the superior
self-restraint of men \u2013 were always trying
to overcome. And
bitch<\/em> emerges as evidence of such a
view, since just as
dog <\/em>suggests that primitive man is,
in essence, cowardly,
bitch<\/em> implies that all women (as
the female of the species) are basically
dogs in heat, driven by their genitals,
and consequently liable to stray towards
adultery and sexual deception just as,
today, men supposedly ‘think with
their pricks’ (more on how this
shift occurred to come!).<\/p>\n
BITCH.\u00a0A\u00a0she\u00a0dog,\u00a0or\u00a0doggess;\u00a0the\u00a0most\u00a0offensive\u00a0appellation
that\u00a0can\u00a0be\u00a0given\u00a0to\u00a0an\u00a0English\u00a0woman,\u00a0even\u00a0more\u00a0provoking
than\u00a0that\u00a0of
‘whore’.<\/strong>
The sub-definition of
bitch<\/em>‘s
opprobrious sense relates to
its application to a man.
Here, the dictionary argues,
it ‘has the modern
sense of
“dog”‘,
although its use is,
bizarrely, ‘less
opprobrious, and somewhat
whimsical’. So a male
bitch <\/em>is
essentially a dog, a
coward, a whiner, a
weakling: all terms which,
handily, reflect back on
the gender the man in
question is borrowing.
But, you know,
whimsically.<\/p>\n
The plot thickens! If,
linguistically, (lewd)
women are essentially
the same as dogs in
heat, the verbal senses
of
bitch<\/em> (I bitch,
you bitch, she\/he\/it
bitches) take on a
whole new
inevitability.
Denigrating people
behind their backs
becomes behaviour to
be expected from any
female animal, and,
consequently, natural
and normal. Moreover,
it becomes an
explicitly feminine
activity: men do not
‘bitch’
about each other, or
rather, if they do,
they are upsetting a
perceived gender role
in the process.
Son of a
Bitch<\/em>
(supposedly Old
Norse in origin) is
a useful comparison
here: men who are
treacherous, it
implies, are their
mothers’
sons.<\/p>\n Bitcho
Ergo Sum, or
whatever.
<\/p><\/div>\n
So then,
interactivity
time: is there an
equivalent word
for men, that, if
appropriated by
women, has a
censorious
reflection on
‘natural’
male behaviour?
The only ones I
can think of
generally reflect
badly on the
woman, and have
little impact on
the man \u2013
‘sharking’,
‘pimping’
\u2013 or hardly
change at all, as
with the
pleasingly unisex
‘fucking’.<\/p>\n
Finally, a word
on
bitch<\/em>
in the
twenty-first
century. Since
the purpose of
this Alphabet
is to work
through
linguistic
history via
the Oxford
English
Dictionary
(which is in
so many ways
the pater
familias of
conventional
English), I
find myself
ill-equipped
to discuss the
many nuances
the word has
acquired in
modern day
slang
(‘a
crocodile will
stone cold eat
a
bitch’,
etc.), which,
however, is an
area I hope
readers will
be able to
bring
something to
themselves in
the
comments.<\/p>\n
However,
what is
really
confusing me
is the
question
what to make
of the
increasing
tendency
nowadays for
certain
women (or,
at least,
greetings
card
companies
aimed at
women) to
reclaim
bitch
<\/em>as a
Fun Ironic
Term:\u00a0hence
all those
novelty
cards
about how
one would
be
ill-advised
to disturb
‘the
bitch’
when
she’s
sleeping
\/
shopping
\/ eating
chocolate
\/
gossiping
\/
menstruating,
for LO,
SHE IS A
BITCH.
This seems
to
translate
as
something
along the
lines of
‘Hey,
I’m
the female
of the
species! I
have,
like,
moodswings
and stuff!
I’m
deeply
unreasonable!’
These
women do
not,
however,
seem to be
particularly
concerned
with
sexual
activity,
which, the
dictionary
insists,
is
bitch<\/em>‘s
primary
definition
in its
application
to
women.
Ironically,
they are
in fact
using
the term
in
something
much
closer
to its
secondary
meaning,
‘an
outstandingly
difficult
or
unpleasant
thing<\/em>‘.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n
Further
reading<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n
<\/a><\/p>\n
<\/a>
A Diversion Back In Time<\/h2>\n
\nDictionary\u00a0of\u00a0the\u00a0Vulgar\u00a0Tongue<\/em>,
1811<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Wait, What About Me?<\/h2>\n
<\/a>
‘You Say
“Bitch”
Like It’s A
Bad
Thing!’<\/h2>\n
<\/a><\/p>\n
\n
\nNEXT
WEEK:
C
is
for
…
Crinoline.
No,
really,
it’s
an
awesome
word!
And
we
thought
we’d
dodge
the
obvious.
<\/strong><\/p>\n