bruce feiler – Bad Reputation A feminist pop culture adventure Wed, 09 Feb 2011 09:00:21 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.6 37601771 Found Feminism: “Council of Dads” – TED Talks /2011/02/09/found-feminism-council-of-dads-ted-talks/ /2011/02/09/found-feminism-council-of-dads-ted-talks/#respond Wed, 09 Feb 2011 09:00:21 +0000 http://www.badreputation.org.uk/?p=3026 This is a talk by Bruce Feiler, linked from the rather excellent TED talks which I listen to every now and then. Dads and their connection with feminism is something of a hot topic for me, and this particularly resonated, because it concerns a man, diagnosed with cancer, planning to assemble a Council of Dads to give support and wisdom to his daughters should he die.

I was taken by his concept of dadhood, and his understanding and appreciation for the importance of it. He takes a tandem approach, both looking to replace the aspects of himself as a person and looking for people whose responses to “what advice would you give my daughters” he liked. The end results are surprisingly non-gender stereotyped – get over obstacles, jump in mud puddles, find a friend.

He also talks a lot about the importance of community in creating a whole person, and a little about the idea of a “modern man” as actively seeking a role in their child’s upbringing, which is very encouraging.

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